Day 22 of 30 – Is their comment helping or hindering you?

When we communicate with people we are doing it from one of three “states”;

  • Parent can be Critical Parent or Nurturing Parent.
  • Adult 
  • Child can be Rebellious Child, Adapted Child and Free Child.

When you read the example, these will all make more sense to you.

Obviously, when we were a child, we “heard” most of what we learnt from significant grown ups in our lives; our parents, our grandparents, our extended family, teachers, possibly priests, etc etc etc.  Continue reading “Day 22 of 30 – Is their comment helping or hindering you?”